Planning My New Life

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In January 2000 I was in such despair.  I was so longing to be a mother and didn’t believe it was going to happen.  I also knew I wanted to be at home with my baby, but I didn’t see how that could ever be possible.  I cried out to God, and though change was difficult, I took many those baby steps, clarified my deep desires, and wrote down my needs. 

First I answered two questions, “If I could live the most joyous and fulfilling life I could imagine, what would it consist of?” and “If my life ended in year xx, what would I regret not having or doing?”

I made a list of how to begin (and this time the list was used!)

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Two years later my life changed drastically.  I soon met my husband, and three years after that my son was finally born. 

I also wrote in detail how I wanted my dream day to flow – and here I am many years later looking at my “perfect” daily schedule – and most of the way I planned it is how I am living my life today.

baby photo credit: http://www.rch.org.au/ecconnections/publications/index.cfm?doc_id=11285

Note:  This post has been updated and greatly expanded in my book How to Thrive on One Income.

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