Beautiful Homemakers

Hello, Beautiful Homemakers!  Today's chapter in the original 1922 Fascinating Womanhood pamphlets number 6 is all about arousing and maintaining a man's interest in you.    We cover the first half of Chapter 13:  Method of Arousing Interest,  What Topic Interests a Man Most,  Before a Man Confides, and Two Tendencies in Every Man's Courtship  "When a man seems to be interested in a certain girl, for example, he is not actually interested in the girl so much as he is interested in the pleasure, the comfort, and the feeling of strength and manliness that her society gives to himself." I didn't think to put this in the video, but in typing out that sentence I realized that this also exemplifies why so many marriages fall apart.  Most men and women aren't in it for the long haul, the ups and downs, the learning to love sacrificially and become more like Jesus.  This is actually one of God's purposes in marriage relationships!  But if you or...

 1)  Happy Resurrection Weekend!   I hope you are keeping Sunday simple, lovely, and full of joy!  Consider inviting someone who might be alone that day home with you to share your meal.  Look through your directory and invite someone!  You will probably make their day. Jennifer Flanders has wonderful ideas for you to do with children and adults, along with links and printables:   Our Family's Favorite Easter Traditions                                                      How true is this sign - No BUNNY loves you like JESUS! 2)  I went on a walk and passed by a neighbor's house in my old neighborhood, noticed it was for sale, and learned that the owner had died.  He was only 78; a reti...

 Hello, Beautiful Homemakers!   In today's video we continue discussing scenes from William Makepeace Thackeray's story Vanity Fair.   The subsections of Chapter 12 of the 1922 original Fascinating Womanhood pamphlet #6 is called "More of Becky Sharp's Stratagems," "How She Applied the Principles," and "Joseph is Enthralled."   I read you 4 vignettes from Vanity Fair and also cover a few points Mary Rizza brings out in her article Sharp at Heart: Why We Should Resist the Appeal of Becky Sharp .  Becky is adept at using FW principles; however, she is manipulative and insincere, and does not possess the worthy character that a true Fascinating Woman nurtures and develops with her acquaintances, and in her relationships. Becky is also adept in portraying "Beauty in Distress."  The most important sentence is "Could anything be better calculated to emphasize her tenderness, her feminine frailty, her helplessness in a cruel world, and...

 Hello, Beautiful Homemakers!   I begin this video with what I forgot to say in the last video, but remembered to put in my last blog post.  Here it is again, since that was several weeks ago! At the Dance:  Why do men prefer women in dainty, fragile, soft, and delicate gowns versus short, black, body-hugging dresses?  Because the fabric conveys the qualities of the wearer herself. (Remember how we have discussed how your clothes 'say it for you'?)  Men want dainty, fragile, soft, delicate women for wives.  If you must wear black, don't imitate a street walker. Wear soft velvet, or dainty tulle or chiffon, or have lots of delicate lace covering your back and arms.  Don't show too much cleavage!  Don't let your skirt be too short.  If your dress dips down showing some cleavage, then your skirt needs to be longer.  If your skirt is above your knees, then your decolletage needs to be covered.      [Also, a...

   Ten years ago my parents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. We had a party and my brother and I shared a few memories of growing up. Here are mine: I am so thankful for my parents. Many people have asked, “Do you really know how lucky you are to have them for your parents?” And believe me, I do know. For one thing, we all actually liked it when my dad came home! Some friends would think they’d have to leave, or even hide, but I knew that if we had made a fort that day out of chairs and blankets, my dad would go through it! If we played with cars and made block towns, it would stay up for my dad to admire. We were excited when he came home! We also loved rainy days at our house. Not just because of the rain, but because we knew that when we got home from school, fresh hot chocolate chip cookies would be coming out of the oven. We’d run home! Even my dad didn’t mind the traffi...

 Hello, Beautiful Homemakers! In today's video we cover a lot of ground in Pamphlet 6 of the original 1922 Fascinating Womanhood pamphlets. We discuss: Gaining Immediate Notice, if circumstances allow: "You are the helpless beauty in distress again, and the man feels challenged to prove his superiority by finding a way to show you that exhibit."   A Stroll Through the Park, with the most important sentence being: "Every time one of them takes your hand to help your tenderness over this, that, or the other obstacle, he feels the contrast between your womanliness and his manhood - a good feeling for him to have, and a feeling that is a genuine pleasure to him."   Making the most of a picnic:  "The modest little thing naturally became even more frightened at such a proposal; she blushed, became confused, and finally became so daintily reproachful that the man was enchanted.  And when he finally persuaded her to place her confiding, trusting hand in his, and th...

Hello, Beautiful Homemakers! The first subsection of Pamphlet 6 that we are covering today is Stratagems that Win the Notice of Men .  They ask you to review chapter 8, exercises 1-6, 9-11, 13, and 14.  This is found in Pamphlet 4.  (See video and information at the end of this post.) The most important sentences in this section is:  "Nothing you may do to attract attention will be of much avail if there is, either in your manner, your voice, or your apparel, the suggestion of strength, manliness, efficiency, ability, or severity. The woman who is obviously able to kill her own snakes simply cannot attract favorable attention from men, no matter what arts and devices she employs..." This man discusses why ultra-feminine women are so desirable to men, and I highly suggest that you watch it: The next subsection is called The Manners that Focus Attention .  This section has several examples that I disagree with.  I tell you what the book says, and why I think...

Hello, Beautiful Homemakers!     I begin today's video with a partial comment from Aurora, with her permission.  It can be found in its entirety under the video FW3.4 "Why Being Too Nice Breeds Contempt."  She talks about how she has been showing her DH appreciation, and how she is trying to stop taking control, and the profound effect it has had on her marriage.  She changed just a few things, and BAM! he's acting like a completely different man.   Appreciating your husband, relinquishing control, and letting him lead makes a difference!  Let's squash our inner "Superior Wife."   We are beginning Pamphlet 6! Chapter 12 is entitled "Making Men Notice You." The most important sentence is "...what really attracted the man in each case was the opportunity to act the part of the 'superior' male in soothing that timidity, in protecting that tenderness, in aiding that helplessness, and in justifying that dependence."   This does not...

 Hello, Beautiful Homemakers! Today I am reading a 16 page booklet that changed the life of my family.  I discovered it just a few months ago and got in touch with the author.  V. Glenn McCoy and his wife and family gave me permission to read this booklet to you on YouTube. During the last 5 minutes of the video, after I finish reading the booklet, I share these verses: 2 Thessalonians 1:7-9 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Romans 6:2-7 and Galatians 3:22, and 3:26-27. The background of WHY I chose to read this booklet to you (Most of this is NOT in the video, but I know my loyal subscribers will appreciate the full story) In mid-2024 my husband and I were still on our church search.  He dragged me to many a service with rock concerts that, frankly, disgusted me.  In one service, people in the audience bowed to a jesus idol and a fake prop-bible. We left this service half-way through at my insistence (because that breaks the 2nd Commandment).  In the majority of church...